Some days, the biggest battles happen in the smallest bodies.
Lately, we’ve been noticing a pattern with both Charlotte and Brooklyn. They get territorial—jealous even. If either Cata or I start giving attention to one, the other is suddenly there, demanding it too. It quickly turns into a moment where you have to pause, grab a second set of toys, and make sure everyone feels seen, entertained, and included. And still, the one who’s not in the spotlight is convinced the other one’s game is better.
It’s wild to witness how human nature shows up at such a young age.
This is all especially new (and sometimes challenging) for Cata, being an only child herself. Watching our girls figure out what it means to share space, affection, and attention has been revealing. Charlotte, our oldest, doesn’t always respond gracefully. There are times when Brooklyn toddles over, wanting to be close, and Charlotte will push her away—or even knock her down. And yet, there are other moments when they collapse into a pile of giggles, laughter echoing through the house like grace on repeat.
These sibling dynamics demand vigilance—more eyes, more redirection, more patience. It’s not always fun for Charlotte when we have to intervene and set boundaries. And truthfully, the constant state of alert can be exhausting.
But in it all, there’s something deeper we’re learning as a family.
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”
—Philippians 2:3 (NIV)
We return to this verse often, gently reminding the girls to be kind, to share, and to treat each other with love. Not to be rough. Not to be mean. And meanwhile, Cata and I are whispering our own prayers—for patience, for wisdom, for the strength to keep shepherding well.
Because even in the struggle, there’s beauty in the becoming.
Closing Prayer:
Lord, give us eyes to see our children the way You see them—full of promise, even in their mess. Help us model the kind of love that teaches, corrects, and comforts. Let our home be a place where humility grows and grace multiplies. Amen.
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